Have you ever ask yourself question like below?:

Question 1 : How old are you now?

Question 2 : Have you ever look back into your past?

Question 3 : Do you see any mistakes in what you did before?

Question 4 : Do you learn any lesson from it?

Question 5 : Do you really learned? Really? Are you sure? Do you learned? Or you just understand?

Many people confused with the word "learn" and "understand". Example, a person claimed that he'd learn from mistakes that gambling is a bad habits bla bla bla... But after a short period of time... He still stickied with his bad habit.

Many people nowadays facing this kind of problem. I am not talking about gambling, I am talking about attitude towards life.... When we fall, we feel the pain, we thought we're learning something from our mistakes.. but most of the time people still will fall at the same spot with the same mistakes. By then, we feel the pain again, and trying to get some help from friends or anyone around us to lay their hand out so that can give us a lift. And again, we'll assuming we'd learned from the mistakes 2nd time, and we will grow stronger. (WRONG!!)

I mean, if we really learned.... if we really really really learned, there's no reason we will fall at the same spot again. Right? The definition of "LEARN" to me in life is "you will get the case into deep analyse. will put the mistakes lesson into your mind, and if neccessary put action on to avoid the issue ever happen again". Trust me on this: "excuses only keep you weak and runaway from the real life" - FACE IT!! IT WON'T BITE!! Only coward will thinking of runaway or quiting.

Hope this idea do apply in your life as well.

Kampung Style Kenduri... Cool..

Just came back from my colleague's uncle kenduri at Perlis state. Consider a nice getaway that never experienced before. The hospitality of his family members really shocked us off.

Basically this is how the situation feels like: there are totally 4 tents setup around his uncle kampung house. Among the 4 tents, each 2 were means for Guys, and the other 2 tents were mean for Ladies. When we walk till his house from parking place, Sham (my colleague) parents shake our hands so firm until you even can feel their gladfull of finally seeing how their beloved sons workmates looks like. After a short chit chatting session with their parents, we were lead to the dining area, starting to serve us their tasty kampung style dishes...: Tendered Beef cooked with lots of onions & yellow ginger powder, banana seeds with curry beef, pineapple with fish, wintermelon with carrots, etc... yummy... By the time we enjoying our delicious dishes, The "kahwin" ceremony get started.. The gendang beating part were being replaced by pre-recoreded CDs, but the rest of it just as traditions as it should be.

By the way, did I mention? Me and Hong are the only two chinese guy that attending the Kenduri. All of Sham's Kampung neighbours and relatives looks so funny when they saw some chinese guy attending malay kenduri... ha ha...

So basically it's a great day.. Can't wait till Sham his own kenduri... I think by then should be more chinese people will be coming over... kiak kiak kiak... Till that day....