Question 2 : Have you ever look back into your past?
Question 3 : Do you see any mistakes in what you did before?
Question 4 : Do you learn any lesson from it?
Question 5 : Do you really learned? Really? Are you sure? Do you learned? Or you just understand?
Many people confused with the word "learn" and "understand". Example, a person claimed that he'd learn from mistakes that gambling is a bad habits bla bla bla... But after a short period of time... He still stickied with his bad habit.
Many people nowadays facing this kind of problem. I am not talking about gambling, I am talking about attitude towards life.... When we fall, we feel the pain, we thought we're learning something from our mistakes.. but most of the time people still will fall at the same spot with the same mistakes. By then, we feel the pain again, and trying to get some help from friends or anyone around us to lay their hand out so that can give us a lift. And again, we'll assuming we'd learned from the mistakes 2nd time, and we will grow stronger. (WRONG!!)
I mean, if we really learned.... if we really really really learned, there's no reason we will fall at the same spot again. Right? The definition of "LEARN" to me in life is "you will get the case into deep analyse. will put the mistakes lesson into your mind, and if neccessary put action on to avoid the issue ever happen again". Trust me on this: "excuses only keep you weak and runaway from the real life" - FACE IT!! IT WON'T BITE!! Only coward will thinking of runaway or quiting.
Hope this idea do apply in your life as well.
4 comments:
Truth. We only has 1 life in our time. Do something that you won't regret.
生命没有take two嘛?我怎么觉得你在讲着某人呢?哈哈,难道我多心了?
eejet - hi, thanks for dropping by.. I still remember what I owe you.. just give me some time to finish it, k?
岚言懒语- I know who you thinked that I am talking to.. And NO. It's not him. hehe..He's rich, so it doesn't infect him much.. 如有雷同,纯属巧合
my dear,
don't be too hard on yourself k!! :)
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